The Right Attitude


“It was never the doubt if I could do it . It was having the courage to get into position which allowed me to be Unstoppable”-Diedre  

We just stepped  into a new year . Where everyone mantra is formed around “new year New Me “ I have also had my fair share of allowing the new year to be the calendar that helps me get my Shi* together. You know the pep talk that we are finally going to do it . The problem is that comes with a whole lot of pressure. Especially if we announce to the world and we don’t follow through.(Girrrrlllllllllllll 👀 this was me , all I am going to say is Thank you for the shift )




Last week , I shared  gems on how you can achieve your goals, if you need all the gems grab them here  . Setting the goals and writing them down is easy , having the right attitude is what going to keep you in the Room. ( Can we Say own It )

 “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”- Maya Angelou 

Your attitude is going to be the very deciding factor when it comes to if you will succeed or fail .



We live in a time , where people feel entitled because they went to the finest school. Or they have connections to things a lot of people may not have access to . Can I tell you a secret none of that matters if you have a horrible attitude. The right attitude will position you as a key holder.  when you have the Right attitude you are able to 

ADD Value  

Are the things that you are talking about , do they change someone else’s life ? We are all here to be of service. You value is worthy it does not matter if it Something as  volunteering to Running an event but the position cannot go hand and hand without each other . I know we may doubt what we may bring to the table . But as I learned in  the “Good Book” “ let me touch the hem of his garment “ That was a attitude of Gold . Whatever your expertise is bring it to the table .


Having the right attitude will put you in position that you did not apply for . I always stress the importance of doing the best you can because you never know who is watching . I meet so many people who may admire my attitude, the way I dress , down to the way I smile and would love to learn more about me. You never know who is watching and what they need you for . You must also be ready to accept what you are praying for without complaining.




I remember when I first started to receive the things I use to pray for . I didn’t know how to take it all in at times . I use to feel that I was not ready just yet . Or if I did a little more learning then I could be ready . If that sounds familiar it’s called Imposter Syndrome but I call it compention with yourself .

 “When you know you are of worth, you don’t have to raise your voice, you don’t have to become rude, you don’t have to become vulgar; you just are. And you are like the sky is, as the air is, the same way water is wet. It doesn’t have to protest.”-Maya Angelou 



My mission and goal is to continue to add value that will shape and empower you to enrich your life .  Now you know I cannot end the post without the fashion deets .


Jacket : Thrifted $3.00  

Shirt : Forever21  $10.00

Skirt: Thrifted $1.50  

Boots : Target $18.89


it is not about what you where , but how you wear it .