Who are you going to Be ?


Hey February is that you babe ? Happy Monday , I missed you so much . I have been absent due to realigning who I am and what is truly driving my purpose. No matter what is going on around you , please understand who you are and what you are meant to be will always find their way if you are paying attention.

if I can be truly honest with you these last couple of months has been a whirlwind of highs and lows . While finding a balance in motherhood to loving myself , going after my degrees for a hole and being there for the people who need me . 

I found myself slipping away while giving things that has to means to serve me get my attention. Girl can we be real tho . 



 “Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.”-Oprah Winfrey 

During my Discovery I realized as women we do not give ourself full permission to be who we are meant to be . Myself included it’s like we tell ourself naw that’s too big .I want to share a few ways to over come. 


What do you want ? A lot of times we can be scared to say out loud what it is that we really want. Once you are comfortable with saying yes to yourself . Create the plan on how you are going to make it happen. This could look like taking every Monday to plan out your game plan . The more clear you are about the goal the more intentional you will be .




Use what you are Good at.. 

let me be the first to say ... babe you are the magic sauce . I don’t care if 10 people are around you there is no one that can make it like you . If you are good at organizing then do that . If you have a nack with numbers then do that . If you love cooking pumpkin pie then baby do that . The things that you are good at you will do without thinking about and the love will overflow. 



Enjoy the Experience  

Everyone who get it , and that’s okay . It wasn’t until “I”  decided what was going to be okay for me. In order to get everything from the things you are seeking you have to be open to the experience. Learn as much as you can while you are growing.




Who you are meant to be won’t fit everyone’s agenda and that’s okay -Diedre